By Shawna Files

My story is, unfortunately, not unique. In 2008, at age 37, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was shocking. I had no experience with cancer, and no family history. I thought, because I am young, I will just battle through it. But the surprise is that breast cancer is even more aggressive with young women.

My first thought was my family, especially my boys (five and nine at the time) without their mother. I remember being afraid that no one could love them as much as their mom. I had to fight!

Treatment consisted of mastectomy, chemo, radiation, hysterectomy and reconstruction over several months. I had to learn to navigate in an entirely new world. It was scary and a couple of times I found myself crying in my car on the way to work so no one would see my fear. Luckily, I had a supportive network of family, friends, co-workers and doctors.

My family and friends really stepped in and helped. They cooked delicious and healthy meals for me every day. They helped me to stay brave, get through my hard times and emerge as a survivor.

When I felt up to getting out, I decided to participate in the Komen Puget Sound Race for the Cure. My friends were right there alongside me. It was inspiring to be a part of such a large, supportive community.

I am truly grateful for every day. I am also thankful that I caught my breast cancer early. I found a lump when I was showering. It came out of nowhere. Of course, you don’t believe it. I thought: I will just wait, and it will go away. Luckily, one of my friends was a nurse and she said: “oh no, you have to go right in and have this checked out.”

This is why I tell all women: What they say is true; you have to be your own health advocate. You have to take care of yourself and make sure you are on top of your own healthcare. Do a self-exam, have your mammograms. Breast cancer happens quickly.

I feel much sadness for those who have lost the battle. We need to figure out why this is happening to so many women. My hope is that we can eradicate breast cancer during my lifetime. My story should be unique!